To add to last night's panic about seeing X with OW at community event, I then got an email invite from the couple who enabled the affair to their annual Solstice party.
This couple is friends with OW. She met my X through them. They SUPPORTED, ENCOURAGED, ALLOWED them to sleep together at their house during the affair this summer. They have a 10 year old kid. She's a THERAPIST.
And now they have the gall to invite me to the party?
Is the correct response: "you've got to be f**ing kidding me?"
or: "J. and D.: you allowed my life partner to engage in and grow an affair under your roof. I would have expected my friends to have higher moral values than that. I do not expect to engage with you as friends again."
No response at all would not be at all satisfying. Don't they sometime have to hear a rebuke for their actions, especially if I can frame it in a well-controlled manner?
Last edited by avermont; 12/09/0903:45 PM. Reason: trying to keep threads together
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
