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There are very few R talks. When there are, at what point do I bring up the drinking and what his plans are?


I wouldn't bring it up for a while at this point, enjoy the holidays no need to put more stress there. As you've said in the past this could be a holiday feeling for him...If things are looking more and more positive after I think you need to bring it up as a concern.


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

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