There are very few R talks. When there are, at what point do I bring up the drinking and what his plans are?
I wouldn't bring it up for a while at this point, enjoy the holidays no need to put more stress there. As you've said in the past this could be a holiday feeling for him...If things are looking more and more positive after I think you need to bring it up as a concern.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
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