That's what I was looking for - an easy way to include or NOT include H without making our private matters public. Thank you for the suggestion.
Thought about also putting something like - Merry Christmas from DD and her blessed parents. Bc...she is an absolute blessing!
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010