SO2 I agree with 25...The HUGE thing for me and you know this, until he confronts his addictions you can't get sucked in.
Just curious did he ever pay you the child support he owes you?
Yes, he is caught up now. That was another dynamic I wondered about too. So many factors to think about.
If he is drinking still, which I am pretty sure is still happening to some degree he won't be able to hide it long from me if we spend this much time together. I am constantly looking in his eyes and he knows it.
Oh, 25..is he going to AA? Not that I know of. He had his classes he attended for his dui but I think since that is over he hasn't gone back from what he says.
Yes, when I list everything it doesn't look like many changes that I need are happening yet. Just wait and see.
There are very few R talks. When there are, at what point do I bring up the drinking and what his plans are?
BTW, exercising in my living room with a toddler is tough. She hung on my leg the whole time
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
