Thanks, Gardener. I'm in a much better mental and emotional state then I was just a couple of weeks ago. Feels good to let the drama go!

...Of all the crap we are all dealing with - I realize this little question is insignificant, but I'm wondering what the heck to put on our Christmas cards this year.

I have a tradition of making a photo card for Christmas. We will not have a family picture this year, but I will make cards with a pic of DD. I'm stumped about the greeting to put on the card. What do I even say? Some ppl know about our sitch, most do not.

I want to keep this tradition as a keepsake (esp. for DD), but I don't want to come across as a fake happy family.

The wording is trivial, I know...just don't know what to put. Hmmmm....


Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010