Need help setting boundaries tonight!

[oldtimer]

I doubt he would have kept talking to you if you had simply said:

RTGU: "I will not talk to you now. You may email me if you wish."

H: blah blah blah blah

RTGU: "I will not talk to you now. You may email me if you wish."

H: blah blah blah blah

RTGU: "I will not talk to you now. You may email me if you wish."

H: blah blah blah blah

RTGU: "I will not talk to you now. You may email me if you wish."

H: blah blah blah blah

RTGU: "I will not talk to you now. You may email me if you wish."

H: blah blah blah blah

As far as telling H your plan to see a L today, all you do is hurt yourself and help H by sharing ANYTHING about your L meetings with H. It is none of his business. NOW he knows that you are starting on the legal process. This will affect the strategy that he and his L take.

So, CLOSE YOUR MOUTH.