all the feelings or not feeling towards our H are just part of the process of healing I think it fades in time but I still care it comes and goes but I tend to see him for who he is right now instead of the fantasy I saw a year ago It is good to see reality for what it is Take care of yourself here the D becomes a financial business deal at this point think of yourself and your kids they often dont tell us about the filing and like to avoid and keep secrets
they have to travel the road My xh has now lost everything including his business..the list is long yet he still continues the road he chose with no looking back they chose it and I believe they have to do it for whatever the reasons peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow