all the feelings or not feeling towards our H are just part of the process of healing
I think it fades in time but I still care
it comes and goes
but I tend to see him for who he is right now instead of the fantasy I saw a year ago
It is good to see reality for what it is
Take care of yourself here
the D becomes a financial business deal
at this point
think of
yourself and your kids
they often dont tell us about the filing and like to avoid and keep secrets

they have to travel the road
My xh has now lost everything including his business..the list is long yet he still continues the road he chose with no looking back
they chose it and I believe they have to do it for whatever the reasons
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow