My W does the same thing. She initiates conversations, acts very nicely, says hello/goodbye...yet doesn't want a marital relationship with me. I believe our wives are simply trying to maintain the status quo, or as other people call it...cake-eating. We are being fed crumbs so that the tiniest bit of hope still resides in us...so we don't initiate any divorce proceedings. I call it manipulation. Remember, they are still intoxicated with having power in the relationship. I believe they also want a friendship from us once we are divorced. Like Robx preaches...it's up to you to get control of your life and get out of limboland.
Regards, LFH
P.S. Yes, we should get together and go golfing. I'm thinking about the Member/Guest tournament this spring at my club. Or possibly something else sooner.
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
