Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

P17,

DECK THOSE HALLS! Bake the cookies! Put up the lights! Play the music! Start a new tradition with your D this year...for example do they make gingerbread houses over there? Kids loooove to decorate them! I can't wait for my S to be old enough to do that and the advent calendar with him.

only 17 more days ...

Thanks newmama.

No gingerbread houses over here. Although we do make gingerbread men (no women :)). She also has a make your own advent calendar so she has been decorating that (I know it's the 9th!).

@cutterbug,

I haven't put a date on anything at the moment. Not strong enough to do that. I did say that I would wait the two years until we can divorce but I don't know if I can do that either now. However unless something changes in my personal sitch, she can do the legwork on the D.

As I keep saying, for a girl who wanted a 'D as quickly as possible' (which she could actually have had by now, on the grounds of adultery, had she did what I asked, as only I can file - as OM needs to be filed with papers too maybe he has got cold feet at that (as he has done with so much else) - it's one thing to be 'living la vida loca' with a married woman, it's quite another to have her D her H / step-D for you - that's quite a committment - anyway, that's more mind reading) she is dragging her heals on step 1 - the separation agreement. However that could be for financial reasons. These are the things I keep reading too much into and shouldn't.

The only plan I have at the moment is that the house goes on the market on 1 February if I don't get the separation agreement that I need / want.

I'm sure you said in a previous thread, however how much contact have you had with W since Sept 15th? I think it's been a phone call and a couple of texts all for 'business' though is it not?