The idea of giving him up for shared custody in the divorce rips me in half. Soooo that is why I am scared to push WH in the direction of D. Doesn't that make sense?
I completely understand that.
How would dating push your H into a D? You would only be doing what he is doing (and not even that as you would be committing adultery). If he wants to live in an open relationship then what is good for the goose ...
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
