I don't think there is much I can add to what 25 said. I don't know about the losing him part. But that is a personal choice only you can make.

As usual 25 is on the mark.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...