First time poster feeling a bit lost

[MT21]

Hi Sandii,

Understand about the babysitters, we have never left them with B/S we never liked the idea of trusting a stranger. If I can find someone suitable I will try this but I know this will push the angry button if I get it wrong.

If this is the first time she has looked this good in a long time...she is probably feeling almost a power surge from the positive feedbacks and looks from others.

She lost the weight a while ago now (5+years), but just recently she has had an extra push to ditch the last pounds. Although that could be down to this sitch

She may feel as if she is back in high school again.

Sure her looks are important to her, but I think this feeling comes from work, I talk a lot about my work but on reflection she doesnt talk about hers, or maybe I dont give her the oportunity... A week ago she really started to open about work she, although tired, was excited it discuss it.

Have you read the anology of "Dropping the Rope"? Well....mine anyway.

No not yet, If you could send a copy I would appreciate it..Thanks



Understand about the house situation, I am getting there!! Last night was the first step.

I am going out to work now so dont have much time...I will come back to discuss the other points you raised.

Thanks Sandii.

MT