Moving on with my life!

[S.T. _I Made It!]

By him saying "I want to do more things with you and baby and see where it goes" leaves it so in limbo.

I actually think this is okay...because...when people are newly dating, you don't say, hey lets see where this goes...you just do it. But because you guys were married, anything kind of R that you guys start will ultimately say that you are together because you'll be a M couple again. So him saying this is still not leading you to think that everything is okay, but instead just to see what happens. This should be your thinking too because he is totally not ready to commit yet. IMHO.

does that make sense?

and yes, it needs to be about him making YOUR cut. not the other way around.

also, your thought about him wanting to be with baby...isn't that a good thing too? I mean, it's not good if that is his only goal..and I don't think it is...I think that is part of it. We do want him to be part of her life right, or want to be part of it?

you know what else...I think he needs to show you that he can be alone for a time. he's never without a woman. he needs to learn how to be himself.