I think rewriting the history that we shared with our spouses is one of the wackiest signs of MLC and one of the most frustrating for me in the beginning.
My MC said today..H either rewrote or history to validate his current decision(b/c how can you up and leave someone you loved for years?) or he deceived himself all these years and is just now realizing and sharing his "epiphany"...Either way it stinks.
Your past with your H wasn't a sham even though him denying it makes it feel so. You were there and you know how you felt and how he felt at certain points in time...do't argue with him-its pointless...its part of the alien abduction.
Hang in there-there are lots of us here to provide support!
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.