So anyway, my son deserves both parents in his life and his dad will be more important way down the line. I do not want him to be in the middle of a parent tug of war.

The idea of giving him up for shared custody in the divorce rips me in half. Soooo that is why I am scared to push WH in the direction of D.
Doesn't that make sense?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004