Need help about my WAS, she wants to try but...

[brknheart]

I dont think she is trying to be self centered asking me to move out, rather its her way of seeing if I really want to make the M work and be with her.

IDK.....it just seems like "cake eating" to me. You seem to want to do it. I can tell you this much....a lot of women "work" their H's by telling him if he really wants the M to work then he'll do what she's wanting.

It's been a couple of days since you posted, have you done anything?

She is out of town this week, wont see her until Friday. We talk on the phone daily, nice conversation, today the R came up and she ask when I was moving out. She says that she wants to to take me back because she wants me, not because she is lonely and scared. Im confused. She also wants me to do the plans that I had, which was to move to another state for a job. The only reason I was moving to another state is to start a new life, new surroundings, people, etc. I said if we are going to try with our marriage, I want to stay in the same city. She says it would be to easy for her or me to call the other person to come over. Confusing... In the back of my mind I feel like she just wants me to set a date to move out, start preparing, then she can say she doesnt want me to move... woman... no offense