And also, cutterbug, please let's share advice on how to handle the sitch of seeing him/her in new social settings.
A wedding will be tough. At least mine is just a civic event. I am planning on attending; you are the one who gave the smile and wave advice, so I am counting on it!!
Updates to follow--all support welcomed!
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process