And also, cutterbug, please let's share advice on how to handle the sitch of seeing him/her in new social settings.

A wedding will be tough. At least mine is just a civic event. I am planning on attending; you are the one who gave the smile and wave advice, so I am counting on it!!

Updates to follow--all support welcomed!


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process