Thanks dday, yeah, according to my counselor, he has a pretty good handle on my ex's demeanor. He is obsessive and is logical, so much so that he can take the emotion out of anything even though he can feel it, he buries it. Sometimes I don't know how we got together in the first place? So I have a lot of work to break down that barrier and I'm definetly am more of an intuitive, feeling person. So I've had to learn how to speak his language with in the "logical" way so he will hear me.
He basically texted me all day about what happenend last night and insisted that I was late on purpose. Basically I don't want to hang out in that house as I did in his apartment. Our s isn't always ready when I get there at 8 anyway.

So, anyway, my Ex told me that since Mon is a day I work a little later, that I should go to the gym another day, and don't go to a restaraunt at 7:45 (he asked what time I got there) The thing is that I texted him that I was running late and he replied ok. But then I got lost and it was later. Then he told me that he had an appt with his bed and that I have "never" (there's that word) respected that he gets up at 5am and so why start now?. I replied that I'm always there on time and I'm dissappointed that he's not giving me credit for that he's not allowing a margin of error, and I do respect his bedtime.

He still hasn't got the whole story from me because he's not taking my phone calls today. My daughter decided at the last min. to come with me, I was just going to get a quick glass of wine after the hectic day I had at a restaraunt that has an open mic night on Mon nights. I was going to leave quickly, however then my daughter wanted to get a bite to eat and then the restaraunt was extremely slow.. so my intent was to be on time, but one thing happened and then another and I was late. I think that maybe he might have been upset or something when he found out I was at an open mic. See I love music and my Ex was a musician. I loved going to see him play and miss it a lot! I love music soo much that I've decided to take up guitar again and then emerse myself in the music world as I've met a lot of musicians through him over the years and there should be no reason I can't enjoy the scene just because he's not with me anymore. It's not like people he knew were close personal friends of his. So this one was hard for me to read. He's not one to ever express jealousy to me, and the fact that he was okay until he found out where I stopped was strange. ...