What ever you get for advice. Please pass it on to me. As I have a marriage of two close friends coming up and she is the maid of honour. So Jack and Jill will be the first contact in a long time.

I am going to follow the smile and wave theory. Always move with a purpose. Look happy. Look confident. Dress well and engage people in conversation. Have something with you to distract you when you feel distraught. Such as a drink of water. Or a pen and paper to write on.

Good luck.

And sorry on the come clean remark. I only said it because the theme in your stich has been about love and committment and your lack of understanding with them. And my friend you seem to have a life of love and committment. Everywhere.

Do you love yourself?