Don't worry- I'm not saying anything to anybody. I'm keeping it to "we had issues", "irreconcilable differences" or something vague like that.
And I decided I don't really want to get into any R talks with H either unless and until he can take responsibility for his issues. It's pointless otherwise. Talking only about the kids and family is nice- no pressure in those topics. And you guys are right- the quiet is helpful right now. Chester Bunny is good company- he doesn't say anything, just hops in circles around me.
