I am not an expert on these boards, but I think the answer depends on your mindset. Why are you contemplating shoveling her drive? Would you be doing this manual labor because it is the right thing to do? Or would you be expecting some type of acknowledgement from W?
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning