I don't know. It would help W to understand more about how hard it is to be alone, however it would be a nice gesture. H came to shovel mine on Monday, although nothing accumulated, but it made me feel good. Do what you really feel is best. Search your heart and soul, and do what will make you feel happy and then do it without looking back and no regrets.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89