Your W doesn't respect you. She's had how many affairs without any consequences?
Respect is HUGE for women. Know what brought back my respect for my H? He dropped a big old bomb on me and called me on my stuff...and pursued an EA. I'd already walked away emotionally, but my H was the one who had the nerve to call B.S. I'd lost all respect for him as he was always catering to me and walking on eggshells, nervous Nellie-like. It turned me way off.
And there you have it, Lynn. From a WOMAN no less. What do you think about what she's written?
Your road map is there in front of you. Only question now is, do you follow it?