G - You are priceless. And, somehow I knew you'd appreciate this! (Thanks for letting me use your thread, for fear of cheapening mine! LOLOL)
LOVELOVELOVE the conversational input. Filed it away for future use.
He WILL ask about a charge. He's a little more careful w/our cc bills now since D18 used MY card at Xxxxxx TATTOO's!!! (H asks, "MF, did YOU get a TATTOO?")
So, anyways, he is a tad more careful on the charges. Oh, and, just so you don't think I'm a total BLONDE! I called ahead. MF... "So, IF I were to order a special item... what will the cc charge say?" Answer: "Naughty or Nice."
He'll know something's up. And, can I just say, this is TOTALLY against my character, and darnnit, I LIKE it! LoL
Somethin' tells me I'll like my purchase if H is interested in it OR NOT!
G, don't worry about me getting my hopes up. Not a lot has changed. Certainly not anything to be fawning over. The reality is I'm getting a lot better at detaching. (I hardly ever initiate a call. He does.) I'm making home a really nice place to be. And, if he wants to get a little snarky w/me, he's getting a different type of response... typically a little playful, calling him on it kind of response.
For now, it's working.
Oh, and I don't need H to get my rocks off. I just need a delivery!
THANKS AGAIN GGGG Oh Man of G's!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
