No way in h3ll I'd let my H go on a trip with:

1. Someone I'd never met;
2. Someone he'd met online;
3. Someone of the opposite sex.

Your W doesn't respect you. She's had how many affairs without any consequences?

Respect is HUGE for women. Know what brought back my respect for my H? He dropped a big old bomb on me and called me on my stuff...and pursued an EA. I'd already walked away emotionally, but my H was the one who had the nerve to call B.S. I'd lost all respect for him as he was always catering to me and walking on eggshells, nervous Nellie-like. It turned me way off.

And how do you know she's going to meet his parents?

Boundaries. Listen to these guys~they understand how women respond.

Are you willing to hold on to your R even with your W continuing to have affairs? Is this what you're saving? Why?

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!