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I dont think she is trying to be self centered asking me to move out, rather its her way of seeing if I really want to make the M work and be with her.


IDK.....it just seems like "cake eating" to me. You seem to want to do it. I can tell you this much....a lot of women "work" their H's by telling him if he really wants the M to work then he'll do what she's wanting.

It's been a couple of days since you posted, have you done anything?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!