Oh yeah, and on top of that, while I getting out the Christmas stuff, I stumbled upon an article my W photocopied years ago, probably for her academic work. It's an article on how new research is revealing how the damage children suffer from divorce is much deeper than previously thought. I have the urge to hand it to my W tomorrow morning and say "I found this while getting out the Christmas ornaments last night. Thought you might be interested." I know that's futile and would only make her angry. God forbid adademic research disagrees with her assessment that the children are better off with our family broken apart.