I did ask him today. I said things have obviously shifted a bit between us, asked him how he felt, if he was truly sincere and others were out of his life.
His response: There are no others. Like I told you before I am taking it slow, day by day. I look at things different now.
Me:I am for that too, but we have a child together which changes the dynamics. Her stability and happiness are important to me. I think we both need to see changes in eachother..but in the meantime there is not room for anyone else in this relationship.
Him: I told you there is not anyone else.
So what do I do? I haven't pushed the drinking issue yet. I want to see if indeed he is drinking or not. If he knows that will bug me, he will try and hide it and I don't want to drag this out if he is.
He is coming tonite for dinner and put baby to bed. I feel stronger tonight in not getting physical with him. I have to stick to my boundaries.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!