hang in there i think my wife is in mlc also but that doesn't seem the provide any comfort so i know a little about what you might be going through. i am 42 wife 43 3 kids son 19 daughter 13 daughter 18 married son-n-law 19 2 little boys 18 months and 6 months. all live with me except wife who in 2008 moved away from me and had an affair which lasted 5 months the affair stopped because she went to jail and the other guy went back to his wife. my wife got out of jail lived with us until 3 months ago when she moved out by herself. dismisses what she has done and blames me for alot of stuff throught our 21 years of marriage. i am in pain can't sleep half of the time have read books on relationships, body language, divorce busting, divorce rememdy, i think want it just boils down to is she doesn't want to work on anything and hasn't tried for a long time. plus her drinking doesn't help. until she disides not to continue down this path the only thing i can do is wait and hope or divorce and move on. please read take care of yourself and kids and give yourself time to process all of this.
