Heh every time i see LRT I think Light Rapid Transit...
As for the Birth cert. I looked it up.
My deadline is April 2010. 1 month for every year. But at times I say why bother. Do I want to spend the effort to be with this woman again? I would like to have a family. I have a chance to do that. Being a father would be a wonderful life. Also I do not like the person she has changed into. Affair aside. She became very selfish and materialistic. We worked hard and saved away. And were so close to our financial goals. She saw a quick jump here and took it. OP comes from a rich background. I truelly believe she thought she would be the mother of OP's kids as well. All our friends had babies the last 5 years and we could not. So something snapped inside her. And this bizzaro reality formed inside her mind.
I was smart enough to step outside of it. I truelly believe she would have dragged me along to keep getting those giving emotional needs off me. But like I said. I forced her into her reality. Because I wanted no part of it.
No matter what the outcome of her life is. I hope she works herself out of this stage and goes back to the loving and caring person she was all her life.
I think the affair will end in Feburary or March time frame.
I sell the house in April and get my new place. Give her the money from the house and savings then.
Then she will show up one day. And I will say no. Its too late. Too much was done.
I debate with myself if I ever want to shine the light her way to let her know the door has not completely closed.
