So the best idea is to move on and let her go? Her personality is such that she probably wouldn't let me know even if she wanted to come back. Afraid I would reject her. Afraid of the hurt she has caused. Of course, we would have a lot of work to do before I would even think of taking her back.
A key to DBing is to stop doing what isn't working. You've said you've been making all of these improvements and she acknowledges them and yet still doesn't want the M. So why would TRY EVEN HARDER at what hasn't been working.
Again, the euphoria thing. She probably thinks this neighbor has this great life. In two months, when it's 2 a.m. at some dive bar and a fat slob is hitting on your W she may wonder why she gave you up.
You have to trust that the single life isn't better than married life with you. If it isn't, then eventually she'll want to come back -- if you want her.
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