We both have 2 children from our first marriage. We dated in high school, broke up, he joined the army, I married, he came home and got married. We got back together in 1991. Our children our now 20, 20, 19, and 18.
He wants to try to get custody of the child with the OW as she has smoked pot while pregnant with his baby. I am sure I can accept the baby just not going to like the interaction with the ow. He isnt the first married man she has had a relationship with. This is her 3rd time pregnant and never married. She lost her second child last year. She is only 25.
He keeps emphasizing that we are only friends and that he never loved me. I don't even bring up anything about our relationship. I thanked him in an email for helping with some stuff at my house and he said "that is what FRIENDS are for".
