There are several things that don't add up, but I am no professional about rape victims. But why was she ready to date you after only two weeks after the rape? It seems that she would have shunned all men for a while, but who knows why she reacted the way she did. Apparently she must have felt very safe with you. IDK......I think she just needs a professional and after all these years, it would probably be harder to work things out than if she had sought help right away.
What little I know from people who work with rape victims is that there is no "standard" way women react to being raped.
But I agree; if she's never had counseling to deal with being raped, then it's probably something that will continue to disrupt relationships all her life.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
