Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[P17]

P17, thanks--if I decide to date, I will tell him. But I'm not dating!

The text I sent didn't say I was dating either. It said that I was 'going to see what was out there for me too'.

What if I don't have what it takes to go through with it?

What if you do? You won't know until you try.

WSs do what they want anyway. Who really knows if what we do makes a difference in whether or not they end their As?

It's not about ending their affairs, unfortunately. It's about healing and protecting yourself from more pain OF their affairs.

If you're doing it to purely get him back it won't work and your efforts would be best put into something else (more DBing).

NC and LRT are for people willing to risk their M's as it could just as easily kill it as save it.