Your H can't come back and expect not to talk about his affairs. Actions = consequences. He has affairs. Okay. He wants to come back. Okay. He does the work to make that happen. Whatever work that needs to be done.
My 2x4 is that he sees you as a doormat and is going to walk all over you until you put your foot down, shut the door and tell him to come back when he starts acting his age. Then you will TALK.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
