P17, thanks--if I decide to date, I will tell him. But I'm not dating!
The outfit I have in mind is a dark purple low cut wrap blouse that accentuates my waist and hips with a necklace that will draw the eye to the cleavage! My body isn't ready for a skirt yet...need a few more months!
Ravenly, thanks for the compliment about being an "amazing" wife haha! I don't know how great I was before but what ticks me off is that I wasn't done improving and growing! We were barely married! Oh well, now I am doing a good job and won't revert to my lazy ways. Ever.
I know he is cake eating (without the icing)--I am letting him. COMPARE/CONTRAST. Need to figure out the plan B after the holidays...all I can think is he can take our son on weekends or his day off (part of the time) and he can come to the house after work but I will leave to go to the gym and won't cook.
What if I don't have what it takes to go through with it? WSs do what they want anyway. Who really knows if what we do makes a difference in whether or not they end their As?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004