What to do if WAW is still deciding to walk-away?

[lynn97]

I know she's following an affair script to a tee. In fact I'm sure it is probably already and EA. But what can I do besides work on myself. Kick her out of the house on a hunch? Have another conversation with her about how I think this is an EA? Or just let her go and start detaching?

She's already stated she's probably done with our M since we've been down this road before. I think she's just waiting until after the holidays to make it official. In fact she's even mentioned how I will be better off without me. It's almost like she WANTS me to pull the plug. Honestly I'm starting to feel the same way but really need to be ok with ending it. I'm not yet. I know that. But I will get there. I want to get to the point where I love myself again. I respect myself again.

I will continue to GAL
I will not talk about R (except for the discussion before she leaves)
I will appreciate all of the 2x4's you guys are willing to give me

lynn