If I'm Here It Can't Be Great

[Greek]

Coach and anyone,

Will "Greek" do?

I know you and I will disagree on the spouse of OM. I'm just trying to fully detach from her at this time. I've worked through my issue with it.

What I'm working on is trying to become a compassionate and selfless person to people I come into contact with. Trying to see the POV's of others. That is what I need help on learning to truly be compassionate, and selfless. Not in a door mat way.

And getting back her respect. And that is with setting boundaries and keeping them. I'm doing that. Also trying to add that mystery and just really working on making myself happy.

You need to find balance. You wrote earlier that you were "tracking him down" and now you're completely hands off of them. You are correct that you cannot control them/her. But find a balance somewhere between hands completely off AND tracking.

Compassionate and selfless is admirable. Again - balance. B/c you can be both of those things to a fault.

Balance.
Greek