No one ever does. But it DOESN'T necessarily mean it's over.
I filed on my wife two years ago, and our marriage is going better now than it has in over 15 years. And even divorced people end up remarrying I think the figure is 20% of the time.
I agree with Trent -- time to nut up and play hardball. There's a reason they put that little "v" between the names of the parties in the action.
