Tomato, what's going on in your life? How are things with DW? K
geez, you asking for an update or somethin'?? lol
just put one of them up 1 page ago me thinx.
It's all boringly good! My Father is providing the healing touch as He can be consistently counted on for.
For more of the "nuts & bolts" just peruse about a pg ago.
I'd talk it up more now but it aint my style and besides this day has been kinda gettin to me. Lil' stuff though.
Order up yet another round of patince dear Maria. I liked what my friend FIB was saying earlier on your's. May God see you and H through the valley. I am praying for it.
Tomato, what's going on in your life? How are things with DW? K
geez, you asking for an update or somethin'?? lol
just put one of them up 1 page ago me thinx.
It's all boringly good! My Father is providing the healing touch as He can be consistently counted on for.
For more of the "nuts & bolts" just peruse about a pg ago.
I'd talk it up more now but it aint my style and besides this day has been kinda gettin to me. Lil' stuff though.
Order up yet another round of patince dear Maria. I liked what my friend FIB was saying earlier on your's. May God see you and H through the valley. I am praying for it.
T
And since I now see that your Q to me was a little more broad than just what is up w/ my sitch but rather "what's going on in your life?"
I am kinda spent right now from poor sleeping today. But briefly, the poor sleeping was resulting from getting stuff done that I need to so I am sorta happy for that. Spent a little bit of the day reinstating my privileges to rent airplanes here at the airport. A mere formality for their insurance paperwork since I am not too rusty seeing as how I fly every night. Next step now that I can rent a plane is to meet up with an FAA Aviation Safety Inspector since that he can do a similar very brief flight with me in order for me to hold on to my Flight Instructor privileges.
Did you sign the lease or I missed that? And, forgive me for asking but you are going to try to live full time together, right? As of the day you sign? That's what I thought. SO, did you sign? When will the move be? K
The skies were most inhospitable this AM here in PA. Like a damn cyclone let loose. Feel like I got the snot knocked out of me. Severe turbulence, light icing, and wind gusts to about 40 kts give or take.
And to think I used to enjoy the exhilaration of days like this before I started .....maturing ..or getting unyoung or whatever it is I am doing. EEEeeaaaahhh!
Originally Posted By: Kalni
Did you sign the lease or I missed that? And, forgive me for asking but you are going to try to live full time together, right? As of the day you sign? That's what I thought.
I was supposed to sign the lease last Thursday but do to an oversight I had to reschedule for tomorrow. My darling stopped by the complex to view the place yesterday and was impressed with it. In general she expresses periodic and ocassional trepidation about whether we are prepared to live full-time together. Then again she is incredibly anxious about more things than not in life it seems.
So, I should be signing a 6 month lease tomorrow and will be calling that home for a bit on an interim basis until I FINALLY locate my first house. We are house hunting in the same area. Whether my darling is moving in with me is of course up to her and whether she has her half of the needed $ for rent. She floated the idea that it is her desire for us to keep our finances separate and share the necessary living expenses.
I am glad you made it safe this morning Tomato. Yes, the new lease. Call it home for the time being while you search for the real home with your darling.
Also, I posted this on my other thread, but I didn't realize it was you who had called last night as my contacts hadn't been updated in my new phone yet. I finished updating them after dinner and then realized you had called. But that was about 10pm last night, so I didn't call back.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
My darling has what might perhaps be termed a healthy mix of excitement about the prospect of us living under the same roof again together AND "Are we ready for this? ..Not sure if this is gonna work? " One key thing that I see in her is that she is openly expressing the fears and then seemingly processing them a bit over a little bit of time ..pondering (more like me - to the hilt). Then when she comments next it slightly seems like she is rebuilding faith and trust in me somewhat and my judgement on some stuff.
In earlier posts I had mentioned that the Lord is overhauling both of us and crafting more whole beings that step outside ourselves a bit to study and digest and respond accordingly to what the spouse might be feeling/thinking.
Congrats on the apartment and the developments. I already have an apartment picked out for if (no, when) W moves back. I mention it to her from time to time. I'm hopeful that God will keep working on both of us so that we can get to where you are. You're dealing with her skittishness very well. Hang in there, be patient, keep us updated.
On another note, I have two airline pilots in my recovery group at church, who's marriages have suffered and need advice. I might ask you more about that later.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
On another note, I have two airline pilots in my recovery group at church, who's marriages have suffered and need advice. I might ask you more about that later.
Half joking and half not at all joking, my first piece of advice would to NOT be an airline pilot while trying to be a family guy, M'd, etc. Very few of them pull it off it seems. Not that the D rate across all walks of life isn't high but in that group (as well as some other notable one's) it is extreme. I happen to not be an airline pilot. I fly boxes. Life is a bit simpler with a few shakes less BS.
Thanks for the comments and encouragement my brother. As far as the handling of the skittishness ....long way to go!! For all I know she may not even be moving in (she hasn't yet, but I did only just sign the lease yesterday).
Oh yeah, on that ..standby it is not concluded, Ps 77 is a good bit more than just 12 or so verses. Just on temporary hiatus this moment til time allows ..yeah, that's it TIME sureeeeeee.
And as far as an update, I will be blessed again to be spending the night sleeping not by myself and she is in the process of moving her things in. Always little steps.
