2- questions that have been floating around in my head:
1 (and the more humoring) when someone asks, who are you dating/seeing? How to answer? it feels whacked to say, "my ex-wife". (although a little bit of pride comes to mind when it's an answer to nay-sayers who thought I was absolutley nuts for saying I didn't want to be with anyone else but my [then] W).
2 Addressing the 'trust' issue within myself in XW. For some reason, TO ME, it almost seems like setting boundries is pointless, after all, we are divorced. So in all practical theory, it's no different than going back and re-dating someone from say highschool who cheated you, you know the risk is there, but hey, either one of you can walk away at anytime, it's not like you're married or anything? XW says it her full blown intnet to reconcille. Shouldn't that be enough on her own shoulders to know that infidelity will equal her being miserable again?
Just pondering.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
So in all practical theory, it's no different than going back and re-dating someone from say highschool who cheated you, you know the risk is there, but hey, either one of you can walk away at anytime, it's not like you're married or anything? XW says it her full blown intnet to reconcille. Shouldn't that be enough on her own shoulders to know that infidelity will equal her being miserable again? 
