Kudos for a well written piece, as were so many, e.g., Ian's and Kerry's....you are getting good advice from men here Frank. Listen to them. They've been where you are now but they got better.
Also, "Victory" in these situations is not determined by how happy or miserable your xw is, but how you are doing. And only you control that. Remember this. Plan for the holidays and the rest of your life now.
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Yeah, this past week I hit my emotional bottom. I don't want to make anyone the villian in my life any more. I'm so tired of everything that has happened because I LET it happen.
