how did you get in contact with OM's parents? i've always wanted to expose to OW's parents but have no way to contact them...they live in another state along with OW.
I did a PeopleSearch on the OM, and found his parents' address, where I also knew he lived. I sent them a snail-mail letter. I told them if they wanted their privacy, that I would respect that, and that this would be the last they would hear from me. Or, they could call me to discuss it. They never called, but I felt that since they were still supporting the guy, and he was studying to become a police officer, that they should be aware so that they might exert some influence. Obviously, having an affair with a married mother-of-4 twenty years your senior doesn't look great on one's police academy application.
