Puppy,

thanks for sharing your story. It is really powerful how you took a stand and didn't back down when exposing your wife's affair. I've tried exposing my hubby's affair with the "look, I know what's going on, I've seen the text messages, etc." but ended up failing in that at the time I didn't set boundaries (this is before I found DR/DB). Even since then, I have read your advice to other people and always thought that your advice is spot-on even when it is hard to actually do the things that need to be done (i.e. bust up affair and set boundaries). I also see that through your story a marriage is never TRULY over until the divorce papers are signed. thanks for all your advice and for sharing this.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo