Tomorrow night is S7's holiday program at school. S7 and S4 have been with me for the past 7 days, so they will be very focused on my WAW, probably to the point of ignoring me. She likes to smugly insinuate that she should have more time with them when they act that way.

I most likely will not know anyone else with whom I could sit. I don't want to snub my WAW, but I don't want to appear too friendly.

This is the first event of this nature since WAW left our home.

Do I sit with WAW and S4 or find a seat wherever?

Another question: When we talk or correspond, I always use "our" when referring to our boys, home, car, etc. Should I say "the" instead?