Should I wait till our Sat date night to let him know I will not tolerate OW (that is if I can keep it together until then)? The next few days will be busy for me and the kids so I can focus on all the other activities going on to help me through until Sat.

I need to work on my speech/wording. Maybe I will have time tonight to sit down and compose what I am going to say and post it for review.
Plan to say will not participate in open marriage, H is being disrespectful, H needs to terminate all communication with OW (full transparency) and if he does not, he needs to move out as I will no longer be disrespected in the family home.

After he denies affair, I think he will say ...
(I know I can't mind read but I have a feeling based on previous conversations)
that he will not move out and he will just go downstairs.
How should I respond if he just wants to move downstairs?

Just want to be prepared as much as I can for different scenarios/response from H.


Me: 42, H: 43
Daughters: 7,5
Together: 16 Married: 9
Jan 2010- Piecing
Fen 2013 ????