Thanks soo much for this advice but exactly how can I do this?
You've got the keys. Forgive me if I've got the wrong story here. If I remember correctly, he doesn't want you. Threatens you. Forces you out of the marital home and is currently pressuring you into signing the papers... Is this you?
I'm referring to this:
Originally Posted By: soleil
<snip> He also changed the locks on me the day I moved out, told me he'd laugh if I tried to go back. I never have. When he was throwing out all my belongings on the front lawn, my sis was actually standing there. When he finished he said, Now it's done."
Is this the kind of man you WANT to be married to?
I know you say this:
Originally Posted By: soleil
He was NOT this way when I met him, in fact he was so charming i remember saying to him, This is too good to be true.
Of course he was charming. And unfortunately it turned out to be too good to be true.
Here's why he was prince Charming:
Originally Posted By: soleil
Another thing is my H was in the US on a visa when we met. We married and he got a conditional green card.
You asked me how you can create a crisis... here's your answer:
Originally Posted By: soleil
This ends in April of next year. This is a sensitive subject for him and if I so much as bring it up he gets very angry with me. We were fighting once and he asked if I thought he'd only used me for a Gcard and I told him, yeah maybe you did. He was sooo upset & started crying and flung a cigarette off our deck and left.
Sol, you deserve SO MUCH better than him and I believe you CAN DO better. Screw him. He's not a man.
