Right things have been going pretty well for H and myself, we are talking and I would say looking pretty much like we will be back together soon, been discussing house hunting etc but all our moves are on hold as H has to get a new job!

Anyway back before he went awal (separated) he deliberately went to a party I didnt want him to go too and didnt wear his wedding ring, now he did tell me that he had said nothing and that he told the friend that it was an impromptu visit, I know he had taken stuff to change into so it wasnt impromptu but deliberate. Anyway today two separate Xmas cards arrived today one addressed to me and one to him! As this friend moved to Spain the week after said leaving party she is hardly likely to have heard the fact we'd split from anyone else! And we hadnt split up at this point.

Honestly Im spitting bricks at the moment but dont want to jepordise us getting back together but dont want to get back with him with a lie between us either.

Advice please would be lovely!

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!