Do you share with NGF any of your interactions with your XW?

I wonder why she tells you they are pursuing? Can you ask her why she tells you such things?

I know the next one for me will not hear much of what goes on between XW and myself. And I hope she does the same, but if she needs someone to vent to - I will be the rock of a sounding board.

Why South Africa? Why not just take a shovel a few hundred kilometers north of Yellowknife and start digging your own? Maybe you should wait until summer as the ground will be easier to work.