I agree with V, the chances of you sleeping with him xmas eve are great.

besides the fact that he could HAVE something with all these past women, it will not increase your chances of helping him fix himself, or for things to be better, IMHO. In other cases, I feel it is a good thing to do most of the time, but this is a totally diff sitch.

don't beat yourself up though!! you really didn't do anything wrong, it's just not the best choice to make right now for either of you. so don't dwell on it, it's okay.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."